How to Win an Argument – Dos, Don’ts and Sneaky Tactics
Q. Why do I love arguing?
Some couples really enjoy intense arguments because they increase their hormone levels. Subconsciously, those people know that fighting is just a sign of their passion, and their disagreement will end up being an even more passionate makeup.
Q. Why do I fight?
People are not ready to Compromise, People are not ready to listen to others opinion, not ready to understand others point too, people usually argue or fight when they stand on their point and they use their entire energy to win over the person they are fighting with, people usually don’t listen to understand but they …
- Stay calm. Even if you get passionate about your point you must stay cool and in command of your emotions.
- Use facts as evidence for your position.
- Ask questions.
- Use logic.
- Appeal to higher values.
- Listen carefully.
- Be prepared to concede a good point.
- Study your opponent.
Q. Why does my wife argue about everything?
If your wife always wants to fight, that’s a sign of deep frustration and unhappiness. She may not feel she has a voice in the relationship or isn’t getting enough attention, so she seeks negative attention as it’s better than none.
Q. Why do husbands pick fights?
Husband picking fights REASON ONE: He’s going through his own anxiety and/or depression. As you may have an inkling already but a reason why your husband is picking fights with you is likely because he’s going through something himself. People experience functional anxiety all the time.
Q. Why do wives fight with husbands?
Lovers fight when they believe their partners don’t care about how they feel. They fight about the pain of disconnection. Disconnection occurs most frequently in intimate relationships when fear or anxiety in one causes a sense of inadequacy in the other.
