How To Play A Player: 10 Ways To Beat Him At His Own Game

Some examples of game-playing are: Being hard to reach or ghosting (disappearing) Going hot and cold (e.g. pursuing then distancing, such as slow to return calls or texts, or only sending short, impersonal texts) Making promises they can’t or don’t keep.

How to Play a Gemini Man at His Own Game

1. Hold off on contacting him for a bit. I know.
2. Live your life. While you’re not calling and texting him, you’re not just going to be sitting around.
3. Look your best.
4. Don’t break your plans for him.

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2. Ignore him. Players are used to drawing attention the moment they enter a club.
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4. Slightly acknowledge his existence.
5. Show him you’re having a great time.
6. Make sure he sees you having fun with other guys.
7. Flirt.
8. Stay immune to his charm.

You never really know who’s playing games, unless you see the signs. People that are into mind games are generally also the player types, but not always. There are a number of reasons people play mind games, but the goal is usually to gain a sense of control or power over another person.

The best thing to do when you realize someone is playing mind games with you is to bless them with love, stop communicating, and move on with your life. Manipulators have poor personal boundaries and don’t have your best interests at heart. They’ve developed negative coping mechanisms and probably won’t ever change.

According to Barrett, some forms of mind games aren’t necessarily classifiable. Instead, they’re simply “when your words and your actions don’t match.” “For example, you say you want a relationship but you never commit the time, energy or emotional investment to make that relationship possible,” he says.

People play mind games usually because they are insecure, immature, or have a manipulative type of personality. They are not ready and mature enough to be in a stable relationship. Most of that stems from personal insecurities and the inability to trust and connect with another person in a healthy way.

When women are actually interested, they don’t break plans. If she’s cancelling but keeps agreeing to go out, she’s playing games and wasting your time. If she cancels more than 2 times, just tell her you’re no longer interested – it’ll get her attention very fast.

• She Always Bails on Plans.
• She’s Constantly Flirting With Other Men.
• You’ve Never Been to Her Place.
• She Won’t Take Any Pictures With You.
• She Won’t Let You Meet Her Friends or Family.
• You’re an Alias in Her Phone.
• She Never Spends the Night.
• She Never Refers to You as Her Boyfriend.

31 Ways To Tell If A Girl Is Playing With Your Emotions

• She only reaches out first when she needs something.
• She doesn’t ever suggest that you hang out together.
• She keeps postponing meetups.
• She’s unavailable, a lot.
• She never initiates sex.
• She only wants sex.

Here are the signs she loves you but is scared:

• She talks to you all the time.
• She always has a smile on her face.
• She likes to talk about you.
• She likes to share her music with you.
• She flirts when she writes.
• She is always around you.
• She plays eye contact games.
• She makes physical contact often.

A guy who is taking it slow will make plans ahead of time, but someone stringing you along is not making you a priority. He will reach out to see if you want to grab a drink or come over the night of because he was waiting to see if something better would come up.

Signs She May Be Using You For Attention

1. She doesn’t ask you about your day.
2. She doesn’t make efforts to get to know you.
3. She doesn’t make time for you when she’s busy.
4. She makes you feel exhausted.
5. She doesn’t give you quality time together.
6. She doesn’t provide you with the intimacy you need.

Look for when she disappears. If you notice she’s only around when you have something material to offer, she’s likely using you. Similarly, if she’s all sweetness and light when she’s asking for something but then turns mean once she gets it, she may just be using you.