Not only is it not rude to call people “sir” or “ma’am,” the exact opposite is the case. It is considered rude not to do so. Older gentlemen will sometimes call a very young man “young man” in a respectful tone, because the age differential can make “sir” a bit uncomfortable at times.

Here are six tips to help you break free from the norm:

1. Let go of the past. Let go of the past.
2. Realize your purpose. Your purpose is who you are; it’s your essence, and your dreams are to an extent limitless.
3. Aim high.
4. Lead with why.
5. Release your inner passion.
6. Empower yourself.

In the American military, you would never address a female officer as “Sir.” In the United States, you would address the officer as “Ma’am” and not “Sir”. It’s considered disrespectful to use the term “Sir” for a female in both the army/navy and outside.

Sir is a word used for respect. If you call someone sir, it means you respect them. Most people find it respectful to call someone sir or madam. But its not compulsory for every person.

Instead, listen to how most longtime employees address the boss. Whether they call him “Bill,” “Mr.,” “Sir” or “boss,” that’s your cue to do the same.

The best way to greet your boss is to say “good morning” or afternoon, whatever is appropriate….

1. Greet First.
2. Check if s/he is free for moments to give an update on topics (burning) before s/he gets in to other meetings.
3. Ask for update / follow-up questions, which you need to know on the issues you are currently working..

When you become a manager or supervisor and have people working under you, start thinking of them as your “team.” That makes you the “team leader” and each individual a “team member.” The word “team” implies a collaborative environment where everyone works together toward a common goal.