Giving effective feedback, like all skills, needs learning, practice and patience. Feedback is praising good performance and offering corrective suggestions. Focus should be both on what the person did and how it was done.

Here are some simple do’s and don’ts to remember when giving feedback.

• Do’s.
• Do make sure to be specific.
• Do give the recipient a chance to respond.
• Do consider the recipient’s needs.
• Do only give negative feedback in private.
• Don’ts.
• Don’t wait.
• Don’t sandwich negative feedback between positive messages.

For most feedback that comes to mind, usually, the best time to give feedback is shortly after the moment has occurred. Why? The longer you wait, the longer what you didn’t share is still affecting the way you think – and affecting the way the other person acts.

Here’s a how you can optimize your performance management by Incorporating these five simple but effective feedback techniques.

• Give your feedback an EDGE.
• Conduct regular 1-2-1 meetings and check-ins.
• Use 360 feedback.
• Establish an optimal feedback ratio.
• Align feedback to objectives and key results (OKRs)

Here are the 5 best ways to get consistent (and high quality) feedback from your customers:

• Surveys.
• Feedback boxes.
• Reach out directly.
• User activity.
• Usability Tests.

Reinforcing employee feedback examples

1. “Something I really appreciate about you is….”
2. “I think you did a great job when you…
3. “I would love to see you do more of X as it relates to Y”
4. “I really think you have a superpower around X”
5. “One of the things I admire about you is…”
6. “I can see you’re having a positive impact in…”

A good example of positive feedback involves the amplification of labor contractions. The contractions are initiated as the baby moves into position, stretching the cervix beyond its normal position. The feedback increases the strength and frequency of the contractions until the baby is born.

75 Compliments to Use When You Want to Say Something Nice

1. 1 Your positivity is infectious.
2. 2 You should be so proud of yourself.
3. 3 You’re amazing!
4. 4 You’re a true gift to the people in your life.
5. 5 You’re an incredible friend.
6. 6 I really appreciate everything that you do.
7. 7 You inspire me to be a better person.
8. 8 Your passion always motivates me.

Have you tweeted the post? If so, mention it in your comment. This will let the blogger know that you respect what he/she has written and that you appreciate and value the great work that he/she does….For example:

1. “Nice info!”
2. “Great share!”
3. “Useful post”
4. “Amazing write-up!”

Most of the time this is achievable only after many months and years of work, and a dash of talent.

1. You are really good at this!
2. This is amazing/incredible/phenomenal/marvelous/etc.!
3. You are an expert at this!
4. If you taught this, I would sign up!
5. You are so skilled; you really know what you are doing!

You write how I feel, even if I can’t express it. I hope I can express your thoughts if you can’t, and I hope that every time you read what I write you can relate. That is always my goal, to make my writing relatable.

Tell me you love my words, and I know you love me.

1. Your writing is beautiful. My mind is a mess. …
2. I look forward to your writing. Writers love knowing their work is read. …
3. I wish I could write like you.
4. You write how I feel, even if I can’t express it. …
5. Your writing inspires me.

Steps

1. Tell the reader that you enjoyed or appreciated his or her work.
2. State specifically what you liked about the reader’s work.
3. Close by thanking the writer for his or her work.

So here’s a hundred ready-made compliments to try out yourself:

1. You’re an awesome friend.
2. You’re a gift to those around you.
3. You’re a smart cookie.
4. You are awesome!
5. You have impeccable manners.
6. I like your style.
7. You have the best laugh.
8. I appreciate you.

Complimentary words are those that we use in a conversation to make the person we are talking to feel good about themselves. They are generally words to describe an aspect of somebody’s personality/life or to describe something that belongs to the person receiving the compliment.

Considerate – thoughtful of the feelings of others; careful not to cause inconvenience to others. Cool – awesome; very good; popular. Courteous – showing good manners and respect for others; polite. Creative – able to make new and original things; imaginative.

Compliment a guy for his Positive Nature

1. You always make me smile!
2. Tell him, you feel safe around him.
3. You are the one, That I can Trust.
4. I hate when other girls checking on you.
5. That girl would be so lucky…
6. I love the way you respect the other girls.
7. I like to spend time with you.
8. Just don’t change.

101 Compliments That Will Make People Smile

1. Thank you for existing.
2. You make me see the world in a way no one else ever has.
3. I love the way you make me think.
4. I appreciate the way you challenge me.
5. Around you, I’m the best possible version of myself.
6. Your energy is infectious.
7. I can’t stop thinking about you.
8. I love you so much it hurts.

20 Compliments Men Can’t Resist

1. “I Love The Way You Think”
2. “You Always Know Exactly What to Say”
3. “You’re an Incredible Father”
4. “I Love You Just The Way You Are”
5. “You’re Such A Good Cook!”
6. “Can You Help Me Fix This?”
7. “You’re A Great Listener”
8. “It’s Amazing How Hard You Work”